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How do you get a girl to like you?

Part 1 of 3:Getting Close to Her 1. Befriend her Think of her as a friend that you like; it will be...

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Do happily married husbands cheat?

Yes, sometimes. I know a pastor who had an affair with his secretary for over two years. He said it...

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I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

Yes, this is relatable. I realized somewhat recently that I had been substituting my need for emotio...

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How did your marriage end?

I wasn’t very good at marriage. I think my first marriage ended on my honeymoon. We were not married...